my veiws on tattos and body modification

I am a fine one to talk about this topic as i have two tattoo's id like to think they wer tastefully done but people who dont like body art may tend to dissagree, i have a tattoo of a butterfly on my ankle and one of cupid shoting a bow and arrow with hearts on my back with my date of birth 14th feb obviously this tatoo was to symbolise my birthday and the butterfly eas to symbolise freedom and natures beauty.. i also have a peircing under my lip which is purly for reasons of vanity i like the look of it i dont agree or dissagree with body modification as i beleive we are all free to do as we please with our body its just a shell, although i do think some people take it to far in terms of covering the whole body in art or as u can see in the image turning your back into a human corset but it doesnt make it wrong because i dont like the look or idea of it were all unique and express ourself in different ways and i beleive that is what makes us interesting if we were all the same, shared the same beleifs, dressed the same shared the same likes and dislikes the world would be a very boring place!

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infedelity why do people cheat?

Infedelity , cheating, having an affair, creeping there all alternative terms for being unfaithfull, being in a relationship wether it being marriage or a longterm serious relationship. why do people cheat?? is it boredom??, bored of the se person and routine, is it because of lack of both sexual and emotional feelings, could it be fear of commitment feeling trapped. people cheat for many different reasons, i personally dissagree with it why make such a serious commitment if your unable to fullfill it, if your not the relationship type... 4 gods sake just stay single, think about the people potentialy end up getting hurt, the children, the other partner and with that hurt brings on a legacy of ditrust, insecurity, low self esteem and self worth. I beleive if there comes a stage in a relationship where being unfaithfull becomes a powerfull urge in your mind then you should be courageous enough to be honest with your partner and end it before any damage is caused, ive personally seen what damage can be caused from infedelity, in family and freinds and it causes so much pain beleive me.....

Some people say that infedelity is more prevalent in different cultures and that cheating is a culture thing!.. i beg to differ its nothing to do with our backgrounds in regards to culture, we are individuals with our own feelings. I beleive people cheat for a variation of reasons, none of which i agre with.

http://www.infedelity.com/

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Gambling is it harmfull?

I enjoy gambling whether it being scratch cards or the lottery, roulette machines, placing the occasional bet at the bookies or a bet amongt freinds, but i havent got an addictive nature, i wont keep gambling untill my pockets are bare because i have self control and know the worth of money, i do beleive that if u lack self controll an d find it hard to say no then gambling defenitly not for you because you will gamble your life away these machines and bookies are made to take your money and the are not fun for an addict. if you do consider yourself an addict and gambling is bleeding you dry the best thing to do is to seek help and there are gambling counsellors who u can contact and they will offer help.

http://gamblersanonymous.org.uk/

what being bad means to me

Today in society we are surrounded by rules and guidelines which are put in place to prevent or minimise antisocial behaviour, some people may beleive that these guidelines are effective and others beg to differ. I would call myself a "law abiding citizen" but does this mean that i dont partake in activities that some social groups would class as "bad" well my answer is no, were all individuals we all hold different veiwpoints in terms of what is appropriate behaviour and unappropriate behaviour some of our veiws may be influenced by our religous or non religous backgrounds, the area we have grown up in, the family values we have adopted.

I was raised with values in terms of working hard at school, college, university and the end result maintaining a good repitable career, i was told smoking was bad, as were drugs, and that i shouldnt have sex untill i was 18 lol and how much of that mapped out, i started smoking age 15 this i beleive was to follow and impress my peers i didnt feel pressured i just wanted to be accepted and in time i began to enjoy it and it became a part of me, i didnt work particuarly hard at school, i wagged throughout year 10 and 11 although i was in all the top sets in yr 7 and 8 and an a grade student by yr 9 i was almost a different child by the end of school i managed to scrape through with 5 a-c gcse's and i started college on a btec in social care course which i left shortly after, then it was job after job for a while in seedy call centres and the odd retail job in the xmas holiday during this time i fell pregnant had a son whose now 4 and started university as a mature student age 25 last september so as you can see the route my parents had planned for me didnt materialise and i formed my own future by mended mistakes